Lately I’ve had countless people message me asking for tips on how to start out in the gym / lose weight / shape up their diet etc. I think it takes a lot to reach out to someone and ask, which suggests to me that there are lots of people out there who want some advice and are too afraid to ask. The Internet is a wonderful place but also a source of conflicting advice, lies, money making schemes praying on the vulnerable and simply, there’s just so much! So I know people look to people they can trust / know for some basic tips… With this in mind I thought I would re-kickstart blogging again with a series of beginners tips for people to look at if they need it.
I want to start by saying that there are no magic tricks, losing weight is all about eating well and exercising – there really is nothing else to it. However, having said that and from personal experience, I know it seems a lot harder than that, particularly if you’re stuck in a rut, don’t understand where you’re going wrong or are just so far away from where you want to be everything seems 100x harder.
Below is a list of tips which are based on my own personal experience of losing weight (approximately 2 stone / 14 ish kgs) which are meant to help those at the very beginning of their journey. These are general and I will do more specific posts (for example, starting in the gym) but for now, I hope this is a good starting point for anyone who needs help.
1. Start small
When people make the decision to change, for some odd reason, it’s an all or nothing approach. This will never be sustainable and you are likely to fail if you decide that 50% of what you normally eat / do has to go. When I first started my journey I made small changes little and often, started with stopping drinking fizzy drinks, to stopping eating Mcdonalds / greggs every day, to then stopping wine Monday – Thursday… Etc. And one thing that really really helped me was having ‘off weekends’ – for the first 8 months ish when I was losing weight, I ate everything and anything at the weekends to give myself the stuff I like. And when i say everything and anything, I mean it. I remember showing up to a friends house for the evening with a large bag for life full of snacks and pretty much finishing them off myself… But I needed this to keep going! If I had cut this all out to begin with I would have never made it through and lost the weight I did.
2. Manage your drinks!
I don’t necessarily mean alcohol on this, I mean your fruit juice, fizzy drinks, coffees etc… These drinks have an immense amount of calories in which people don’t actually count. For example, a standard Starbucks drink can have over 500 calories in! That’s a meal!!! So I decided, and still to this day, that I will pretty much only drink water, and alot of it. Other than this, I drink Peppermint / green tea, black coffee and alcohol (because where’s the fun without it…). These drinks (minus alcohol) are so low in calories, if any, which means that I get all my calories pretty much from food. Another little tip here is to make sure you drink at least 2 litres of water a day – did you know that some hunger pangs are actually just because you’re thirsty? You should drink some water before eating if you get a pang to work out whether it’s genuine, or your thirsty… Now this was life changing for me. The amount I used to eat because I was ‘hungry’ was crazy… Funnily enough, I’m not that hungry these days…
3. Move in a way you enjoy
I am a firm believer that there’s some form of exercise for everyone out there that you will enjoy. For me, I found walking, HIIT, boxing and weights. This was a mixture of lifting weights in the gym and doing group classes at a former gym I went to. I loved this, I didn’t really have those days where I couldn’t be bothered, I was always excited to attend and most importantly, always gave it my all. However, I appreciate that this combination won’t be for everyone, but there will be something and it doesn’t have to be gym / class based. You can walk, run, rock climb, pole dance, standard dance class, trampoline, gymnastics… Etc etc. You see, the list goes on! Find something you enjoy and just get moving.
4. Walk more!!
Walking is so underrated, yet its so easy to fit in, so good for you both physically and mentally, and is free! Now firstly, walking is the best fat burning exercise – it keeps your heart rate at the perfect rate for burning fat during the duration of your walk… Perfect! I didn’t actually know that when I decided to start walking more, it was just very easy to fit in. I started getting off the train a stop earlier which added a 25 – 30 minute walk to my journey, doing that twice a day was a lovely calorie burn at really, no extra effort. It helped to kick start my fitness journey in a ‘safe’ way, building up my aerobic fitness. When I first started, that walk from the station to work took 40 minutes, and now I can do it in under 20 without getting out of breath. Now that is an improvement and is why I am now able to do the HIIT work and run 5kms like their nothing.
5. Ask for help
Don’t be afraid to ask for help, everyone starts somewhere and that is so important to remember. When you first start out in the gym, you need to make sure you nail the fundamentals and your form, otherwise you’ll risk injury and will be teaching your body the wrong movement patterns. Every gym offers an induction, take it and tailor it! If you’re interested in building muscle, working on your squats, whatever it is, use the induction as an opportunity to ask this. Or if you don’t have an induction, find a trainer and ask them! I was very fortunate when I started that I had people who knew what they were doing helping me, but also some friendly gym goers who stopped me to correct my form. It’s better to suck in the ego and get it right rather then injure yourself and get it wrong.
6. Find your inspiration
This, this and this. Instagram was the biggest tool for me, finding people who I aspired to, who gave me tips and who motivated me to be better. I still use it now, I have certain people I follow who I know will motivate me to get out of bed and go to the gym, or make lunch rather than buy Mcdonalds… I found my inspiration and motivation, now you need to find yours. I’ve trained with people who’s kids are there’s, who are aiming for a certain event, certain outfit, whatever it is, find it and use it. And if it’s not inspiring you then stop using it! I have a rule now, anyone who makes me feel crappy on my timeline is now gone 💁♀️
7. Cook from scratch
(where possible) – I get that there are time constraints for people and they can’t afford to spend hours meal prepping… And truthfully, neither can I! I have never been the type to spend hours slaving in the kitchen, but I always cook my meals from scratch,sauces in all. This made the biggest difference, no longer did I have hidden salt, sugar, additives, but all fresh, nutritious ingredients which I knew where it came from. For example, instead of using a stir fry sauce, I just season with chilli, garlic and soy sauce, still delicious but not consumed in calories and crap! It might seem like a big ask but start small, vow to cook 50% of meals from scratch and build it up… Easy!
8. Trust the process
You’re not going to see instant results, it’ll take a while. I got so disheartened to begin with, taking weekly pictures and weigh ins to see progress, when there wasnt any sometimes… But I promise, it’ll happen. Trust the process and the results will happen.
(To caviate – please don’t check in weekly!! It does no favours for confidence or progress)
9.Keep it simple
I said it at the top but I want to say it again… Keep it simple! Losing weight is made to be so much harder these days then it should be, just keep it simple, eat better and move more and I promise, the weight will fall off!
10. Have fun!
Nothing more to say here 🙂
I hope that helps someone, it seems like a lot but I promise it’s not. All my advice is about taking it back to basics and at a manageable pace. Do this and I promise you’ll see results.
As always I’m happy to help 😘😘